"My daughter used to freeze up whenever anyone new spoke to her. Three weeks in and she introduced herself to a kid at the park. I actually TEARED UP."
What Can I Say | A Kids Response Guide
What Can I Say | A Kids Response Guide
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What Can I Say | A Kids Response Guide
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What's inside?
What's inside?
Most books tell kids to be kind and speak up. What Can I Say gives them the exact words instead - 36 fully illustrated skills covering the moments that actually trip kids up, from the awkward hello to the apology that never quite lands. Each one shows the tempting wrong answer first, then the words that work, tiered for ages 6 to 12.
Prepare them for every moment you can't be there for
It was never their personality and it was never confidence, it was that nobody ever handed them the language - What Can I Say gives your child the exact words for 36 real situations, from a mean friend to a sibling fight, so they're ready before the moment arrives.
perfect for ages 6-12, grows with them
Get them talking, even about the things that hurt
You know that moment when something's clearly wrong, you ask what happened, and all you get back is "nothing"?
They go quiet, you ask twice more, and the whole thing gets buried before either of you can fix it.
It's not that they're shutting you out - it's that they don't have the words yet. What Can I Say hands them the exact ones, situation by situation, until they're their own.
real conversations, not one-word answers
Everything they'll find inside...
Every situation your child faces, and the exact words to handle it:
36 illustrated skills, full color, three pages each
A version written for their exact age
The wrong answer shown first, every time
A pop quiz & best answer on every skill
Scripts for mean friends & being left out
The words for anger, apologies & saying no
Bringing you a hard thing before it festers
Printable tracker to see how far they've come
What parents reported after the first two weeks:
94%
used a script within the first week
89%
handled a hard moment on their own
91%
opened up more at home
Results concluded from an 8-month post-purchase survey campaign in 2025.
Join 7,200+ parents who finally got a real answer.
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She just walked over!
We were at a birthday party and she walked straight up to a girl she'd never met and introduced herself. Word for word, right out of chapter one. I have NEVER seen her do that.
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The apology actually landed.
My son used to do that mumbled sorry that means nothing. Now he does it properly and looks you in the eye when he says it. Genuinely GUTTED I didn't find this two years ago.
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He finally told me what happened.
Three months of "nothing" every time I asked about his day. Last Tuesday he sat down and told me the WHOLE thing, start to finish. I don't know what else to credit for that.
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Works for BOTH my kids.
I've got a 7 year old and an 11 year old, and I figured one of them would be bored by it. The three versions on every page fixed that completely. They read it together now, which I did not see coming.
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She handled it herself!
A girl in her class was being awful to her for weeks. After the friendship chapter she sorted it out on her own, calmly, and told me about it afterward. That was the moment it was WORTH IT.
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He reads it without being asked.
Didn't have to nag him once, which is a first in this house. He says the quizzes are the best part and keeps going back to beat them. Cheapest parenting win I've had all year.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is What Can I Say about?
What is What Can I Say about?
It's a guide that gives kids the exact words to use in 36 everyday situations - making a friend, apologizing, handling someone who's being mean, talking to you about something hard. Not advice about what to do, the actual words to say.
What age is this for?
What age is this for?
Ages 6 to 12. Every skill is written three ways, one version for 6-8, one for 8-10, and one for 10-12, so it fits your child now and still fits in four years.
Will this work if my child isn't shy?
Will this work if my child isn't shy?
Yes. Only a handful of the skills are about speaking up. The rest cover apologizing properly, arguing without wrecking a friendship, saying no, asking for help, and handling a friend who turns mean - moments every kid runs into regardless of personality.
Is this just another book telling kids to be kind?
Is this just another book telling kids to be kind?
No. That's the problem it fixes. Kids already know they should be kind and speak up. This gives them the specific sentences to use when the moment actually arrives.
Does my child read this alone or do we read it together?
Does my child read this alone or do we read it together?
Either works. It's built to hold up both ways - your child can read it independently, or you can go through it together a skill at a time.
What exactly do I get with my order?
What exactly do I get with my order?
The full book, 118 pages in full color, with 36 illustrated skills across six chapters. It also includes a printable social skills tracker so your child can score themselves before and after.
Is this a physical book or digital?
Is this a physical book or digital?
This is a physical book, printed in full color and large format, made to be pulled off the shelf whenever a moment comes up.
Will they actually use it in real life?
Will they actually use it in real life?
Yes. Every skill ends with a real scenario, four answers to choose from, and a Try It Out prompt, so they've already practiced the words before they need them.
Can they read it more than once?
Can they read it more than once?
Definitely. Most kids come back to it as they grow, because the same skill has a different version waiting for them at the next age.
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